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How parents can ease exam stress for teens without adding pressure

Exam season strains families, but small shifts in approach can make a difference. Discover how trust, repetition, and a simple question can transform stress into teamwork.

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How parents can ease exam stress for teens without adding pressure

Final exams bring stress not just for students but for their parents too. The pressure to perform well can create tension at home, leaving families unsure of how to cope. Psychologist Elena Yedeleva has now shared practical advice on supporting teenagers through this challenging time. Yedeleva emphasises treating 17- and 18-year-olds as young adults. They see themselves as grown-ups and respond better when given responsibility. Letting them explain exam formats and tasks builds trust and confidence.

Repetition plays a key role in studying. Going over material multiple times helps embed knowledge in memory. But balance is just as important—students need rest to avoid burnout.

Parents should avoid guilt-tripping or dictating study methods. Instead, a calm tone and open discussion work best. Asking, 'I really want to support you. How can I help?' shows care without adding pressure.

Small practical steps also make a difference. Sipping water in slow gulps can ease nerves before an exam. Planning together—setting goals and strategies—helps teenagers feel in control rather than overwhelmed. The focus should be on understanding what teenagers are experiencing. Support means listening, collaborating, and keeping stress levels manageable. With the right approach, families can navigate exam season more smoothly.

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