Unfaithful Union: Spouse Aids Husband in Preparing for Affairs with Mistress, Husband Coerced into Infidelity, Engaging in Escort Services

It's once again Thursday, and that means another dose of Raw Reality! We're diving headfirst into the murky waters of life's trickier situations.

Let's talk about what to do when you catch your husband red-handed with another woman. He's not interested in leaving you, he just wants a side dish. You could bail, but it might be the easy way out, especially since he's still treating you well. This woman decided to stick it out, refusing to call it quits on the love they share.

Now, we're not condoning cheating, but in some cases, it's not always as black and white as it seems. Some men are forced into extramarital affairs after having kids put a damper on their bedroom activities. Judge if you must, but this guy was once a faithful husband. When the bedroom buzz faded, he's making the most of a poor situation with the help of other women.

We're wrapping up the week's love life with a man who stumbled into a relationship with an escort. He was coming out of a four-year relationship when he met and fell for the escort. He wanted to know if there were any warning signs to watch out for in such a relationship. Let's delve into it and make sure you're following Raw Reality on Twitter.

Wife played wing woman for her adulterous husband

First up this week is the story of a marriage that's over thirty years old, despite the husband's infidelity. Kelley and Reginald, high school sweethearts, have beaten the odds and made it work. She could've left him early on, but she chose to stay.

During an appearance on the Future Wifey podcast, they discussed the infidelity in their marriage that was there from the start. The two, according to the NY Post, got married in 1993. Reginald was the founder of a church at the time and had just found out that Kelley was pregnant.

Not long after they tied the knot, he left his "holy lifestyle" and started chasing women. Their house became a party house. At first, they argued, but Kelley didn't walk. Instead, she stayed, determined to save her family from repeating her mother's mistakes.

Something unexpected happened. They grew closer. Reginald said, "She's my starter, but I got other ones on the bench." Kelley was "okay with it as long as I was first." Additionally, she helped him prepare for dates with his side chicks.

Is he still chasing other women? Have they given up on that part of their relationship? It's unclear, but they know the strong bond formed when you stand by one another.

Romance isn't dead, it's out there if you're willing to work for it. These two are a shining example of what can be achieved.

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Children ruining the bedroom game

Is it the husband's fault for focusing his energy outside his family? Has the wife stopped trying? Is it the kids' fault for putting a damper on their relationship?

You can point fingers at all of them, and the truth is, it's a combination of factors. A 40-year-old man explained that his wife's focus is on the kids, and her bags-under-eyes attire reflects her hectic life. Their great sex life, complete with daily encounters, has hit a wall since becoming parents.

"Suddenly, the woman I desired and who used to desire me would barely touch me," he said. He tried to plan date nights but was met with accusations of selfishness by his wife. After 15 years, he started to stray.

Cheating isn't his heart's desire. He's still in love with her, but his hand was forced. He's adopted a rule that ensures the multiple women he's cheated with don't develop feelings for him. His affairs only last less than a month to eliminate the possibility of emotions getting in the way.

He knows deep down that cheating is wrong, but his wife is just as responsible as he is. "My wife is just as guilty as I am for letting things slide," he said. It could be worse; he could divorce his wife and break up their family. He doesn't want that. He's going to continue his affairs.

Dating an escort, is it love or lunacy?

Are there any warning signs to look out for when dating an escort? That depends on your definition of warning signs. Falling in love unexpectedly doesn't sound like a warning sign to us.

A 36-year-old man found himself in a relationship with an escort after falling for her. He's now telling her that he loves her. They're not official, but to him, it feels like they are. She's started talking about quitting her profession.

They've got an intense relationship going on to the point where she's started talking about leaving her work as an escort. This sounds like the perfect situation, right? Wrong. There are red flags everywhere. This is the escort-driven world, where emotions rarely play a part.

They're not official, but it's essential you keep your guard up. She might be asking for help with bills. Be careful not to get too involved, and be sure to keep some distance to maintain that valuable independence.

This is passion. This is love. We need more people willing to embrace that and take it wherever it goes. Just don't forget to watch your back.

Cali GC

Paul from St. Paul writes:

Seanie,

If you're in or around your late 30s and you can't come up with a better plan than a golf course parking lot, then you probably don't deserve a fresh slice in the first place.

How about a quaint little motel off the highway somewhere on the edge of town where you can sip some Veuve Cliquot and enjoy a cigarette and a shower once all the desires have been fulfilled and satisfied? This type of job just can't get done right in the back of a Toyota Camry [unless you're still a schoolboy].

It's time for this pair to kick it up a notch to enhance the experience, eh?

Best,

PCA

StP, Mn.

SeanJo

Paul from St. Paul, it's good to hear from you. Thanks for reaching out.

For those that missed it, he's referencing a story of a golf course threatening to expose a couple they suspect is having an affair in their parking lot.

I completely agree with his breakdown of the situation. Have some respect for yourself and have an affair like an adult. You're not a teenager. Get a hotel room for your extramarital activities.

That's it for this week's Raw Reality. Follow along on Twitter and feel free to send questions, comments, stories, and whatever else you like my way. The inbox is always open [sean.joseph@our website].

Kelley, who stuck with Reginald despite his infidelity, admitted that they discussed their marital issues on the Future Wifey podcast.
Despite being a high school sweetheart and the founder of a church at the time, Reginald's infidelity had a lasting impact on their marriage.
The husband in the contemporary story dynamics admitted that he engages in affairs, but he follows a strict rule to avoid emotional involvement.
The man in a relationship with an escort expressed his feelings of love for her, and she's contemplating quitting her profession.
Social media users were engaged in a discussion about the golf course threatening a couple suspected of having an affair in their parking lot.
A 40-year-old man blamed his wife's focus on the kids and her hectic life for the breakdown of their bedroom activities.
In the realm of relationships, fashion-and-beauty, love-and-dating, and celebrities, people encounter a variety of complications and challenges, exemplified by the raw and real stories discussed in this week's Raw Reality.