Early indicators of abusive relationships, as revealed in a study, can catch potential signs before things escalate. According to researchers from the University of Western Ontario in Canada, these warning signs do not necessarily indicate abuse, but they may indicate a higher risk. The study, published in the journal Social Psychological and Personality Science, highlights sixteen behaviors that could predict violent behavior within six months. These behaviors include manipulative tendencies, excessive control, and emotional immaturity.
Counselor Dr. Duygu Baran from the San Francisco Bay Area emphasizes the significance of the study and how it normalizes such experiences for those facing them. Among the identified warning signs are:
- Forced or unwanted sexual activity
- Difficulty saying "no"
- Partner's refusal to acknowledge lies
- Comparison with others
- Negative reaction to denial of requests
- Ignoring logical arguments
- Distraction due to thinking about the partner
- Creating uncomfortable public situations
- Arrogant or entitled behavior
- Attempts to change the partner
- Lack of support
- Criticism
- Unrealistic relationship expectations
- Avoidance
- Making a partner do something you ask not to do
- Threats of leaving
Dr. Nicolyn Charlot, the main author of the study, advises that recognizing these warning signs may provide individuals with the opportunity to reflect on their choices before investing further in the relationship. If you encounter any of these behaviors, it does not necessarily mean the relationship is doomed, but it might be wise to take things slowly and consider seeking professional help or advice.
