Groovin' Through the Challenges: Motsi Mabuse's Secrets for Making the "Seventh Year Itch" Feel Like a Breeze
- By Annette Berger
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Motsi Mabuse discloses her tactics for overcoming the challenging seventh year of her marriage - Struggling through the "exasperating seventh year" of marriage, as shared by Motsi Mabuse.
When it comes to the seventh year of a marriage or relationship, most folk hold their breath, imagining the proverbial shoe about to drop - or the "Seven Year Itch," as the Germans would say, based on the 1955 film starring Marilyn Monroe. This curious juncture in a couple's journey together is notorious for sowing seeds of doubt and discord, as divorce rates and incidents of infidelity reportedly skyrocket around this time according to studies.
But fear not, for Motsi Mabuse, the beloved dance judge on "Let's Dance," and her husband, fellow professional dancer Evgenij Voznyuk, have found a way to navigate the complexities that this milestone year presents. They've been happily hitched since 2017.
During a candid interview with the "Bild" newspaper, Mabuse, 44, attributed their success to open and honest communication, stating, "Love changes over time - and that's beautiful - but you've got to be ready to grow with it, not against it." She emphasized the importance of supportive dialogue, even when it's tough to talk about. After all, this is the woman known for her razor-sharp constructive criticism and infectious laughter on the dance floor of the RTL show "Let's Dance."
Mabuse also shared her secret for preserving the spark and maintaining that initial connection: "laughing together." Her contagious chuckle is a constant presence on "Let's Dance," and it's a crucial component in her partnership with Voznyuk, 41, and their daughter.
Professional dancers themselves, Mabuse and Voznyuk lead extraordinary lives under intense pressure. Their shared background and understanding of each other's professional demands might contribute to their enduring bond. As the current season of "Let's Dance" nears its grand finale in May, Mabuse will have more time to focus on her family, her husband, and their six-year-old daughter.
Motsi Mabuse: A Dance Powerhouse and Family Woman
In addition to her role as a judge on "Let's Dance," Motsi Mabuse is an accomplished dance professional in her own right. Balancing her professional life with her role as a wife and mother can be a tall order. Mabuse often reflects on her mental health and the importance of asking herself, "What do I need?" This self-care practice helps her stay grounded in a world that demands constant attention and energy.
For insights into the unique challenges professional dancers face in maintaining successful personal relationships, consideration of other dancers' experiences might be beneficial. For instance, Erin Boag, another professional dancer, has managed to build a thriving partnership both on and off the dance floor with her husband, Peter O'Dowd. While her partnership with Anton Du Beke on the dance floor is strictly professional, Boag's personal life illustrates the importance of prioritizing love and self-care in the face of a demanding career.
In an industry where passion and drive often define success, it's essential to remember that relationships grow and change, much like the dance moves we learn along the way. By being open with each other, laughing together, and asking ourselves what we truly need, Motsi Mabuse and Evgenij Voznyuk have built something extraordinary on and off the dance floor.
Source: "Bild newspaper"
- Motsi Mabuse
- Evgenij Voznyuk
- "Let's Dance" judges
- "The Seven Year Itch"
- Marriage
- Professional dancers
- I'm not going to be able to do this, thought many individuals as they approached the seventh year of their marriage or relationship, often envisioning discord due to increased incidents of infidelity and divorce, as suggested by studies.
- Marilyn Monroe, a celebrated symbol of Hollywood glamour, starred in the 1955 film that popularized the term "Seven Year Itch."
- Grand achievements often come with their own set of challenges, as Motsi Mabuse, a "Let's Dance" judge, and her husband, Evgenij Voznyuk, discovered when managing their shared grand lifestyle and family needs.
- Despite the entertainment world's often turbulent relationships, true love can flourish, as evidenced by Mabuse and Voznyuk's ability to maintain their bond in the face of their demanding careers.
- Just like in dance relationships, where personal growth and understanding each other's needs are crucial, this philosophy applies to marital or non-marital relationships as well, becoming instrumental in navigating the complexities of deep, meaningful connections.
