"Speaking up against insults is something I just can't hold back."
Friends, I can't hold my peace anymore when the horde of populist claims start flying around. The media has stirred quite a stir about training programs, and their quality is, without a doubt, worth discussing. But to malign those who attend such educational events, calling them "intellectual invalids" - that's quite unusual coming from someone who aims to be the all-knowing guru, believing they understand everything about everyone, even American veterans.
The training in question was "Context." I attended it myself back in 2015, and a corporate training for my company's staff was held in 2016. I'm not a fan of training programs and don't attend them all. Still, I can offer a firsthand account of this event, knowing what it aspires to achieve.
I joined "Context" on the recommendation of my elder daughter. For me, the training wasn't about leadership, but about love and relationships with people. The main takeaway was that I reconciled with a close person. This priceless and necessary outcome, for which I'm eternally grateful to "Context."
A conflict with this person had lasted for three years, and it was resolved on the training where I discovered the essence of empathy, learned to see the world from another's perspective, and tried to understand their feelings.
Another issue I had was that I used to drive nervously. Now I drive calmly and enjoy the ride. The training wasn't about leadership. In layman's terms, it's the direct opposite. It's not about success and victory at any cost, but about self-analysis and responsibility. You stop blaming circumstances and other people. What "emotional crutches" are they talking about?
People attend such trainings to address their issues; they don't suppress them, poisoning their own lives and those of their loved ones at home, or their colleagues at work. My colleagues, friends, and partners attended "Context," none of them became addicted or unwillingly attended additional trainings. The program wasn't filled with silly antics, manipulations, or blatant lies that would have delighted the previous post's author and further solidified their standpoint. No stage Left serious psychological issues or unusual facial expressions occurred as they claimed to have witnessed.
It was a gathering of adults who came with their own stories and questions. Acknowledging one's problems and seeking help to solve them is entirely normal, not a sign of weakness.
Dividing the world into black and white, labeling everyone, and belittling others is a cheap trick that brings unnecessary negativity into life. The urge to jump on a popular topic, sweep everyone with the brush of negativity, and assert one's superiority doesn't reflect well on the author, who likely hasn't attended such a training themselves or was expelled due to their negative attitude or know-it-all mentality.
People with such an outlook tend to leave such trainings themselves. We had an instance where a staff member refused to listen, even try to see things from another perspective. He ultimately left, realizing it wasn't about his relationship with the trainer, but with the entire team. Such a person would negatively affect the entire team, bring in negativity and stubbornness, and argue for the sake of argument.
Regarding personal growth and leadership trainings, I haven't attended any personally, but I have heard of unfavorable experiences, including instances of brainwashing about success and triumph at any cost.
My advice is to approach recommendations with caution, listen to genuine people whose opinions matter to you. Learning and understanding oneself is crucial; it helps us become more open and, ultimately, happier.
- Despite the author's skepticism, social media is abuzz with individuals sharing their transformative experiences from the "Context" training, discussing its significance in personal growth and interpersonal relationships.
- Contrary to some negative portrayals, "Context" is not merely an entertainment event; it's a platform for self-discovery, exploring empathy, and fostering better relations with others, making it a unique blend of social-media fodder and meaningful self-improvement.
