Prarthana Behere's bittersweet Gudi Padwa without her father's guiding hand
Gudi Padwa, the Maharashtrian New Year, holds a special place in the heart of actress Prarthana Behere. For her, this year's celebration carries deep emotion as she remembers her late father, who once led the family's traditions. The festival itself has also changed over time, blending old customs with modern twists across Maharashtra.
Growing up in Gujarat, Behere often explained the meaning of Gudi Padwa to her friends. Her father would raise the gudi—a decorated flag—at home and perform the prayers, rituals she now cherishes. As a child, she disliked the bitter neem prasad, a traditional offering, but later came to appreciate its significance.
In recent years, the festival has taken on new forms. Urban areas like Mumbai now mix age-old practices with contemporary touches: drone shows light up the sky, eco-friendly decorations replace plastic, and virtual *pandals* let families connect online. Healthier versions of festive meals and community service initiatives have also become part of the celebrations. This Gudi Padwa, however, feels different for Behere. The absence of her father, who passed away recently, makes the occasion bittersweet. The rituals he once led now serve as a poignant reminder of his presence in her life.
The festival continues to evolve, reflecting both tradition and modernity. For Behere, it remains a time of reflection, honouring her father's memory while embracing the cultural shifts around her. Gudi Padwa's blend of old and new ensures its relevance for generations to come.
