Queer Family Comedy 'So Have We Not Raised You' - New ARD Comedy Explores Family, Love and Outdated Norms on March 18
A new TV comedy, That's Not How We Raised You, is set to premiere on ARD at 8:15 PM on March 18. The film, also available in the ARD Media Library, follows the chaotic meeting between a young woman's boyfriend and her two lesbian mothers. Directed by Michael Kreihsl and written by Uli Brée, the story blends humour with deeper themes about family, acceptance, and outdated social norms.
The plot centres on Hedwig, a young woman preparing for marriage, whose boyfriend Andreas meets her mothers for the first time. Her parents, Balbina and Inka, couldn't be more different. Balbina, a struggling writer with a penchant for alcohol, is working on a biblical project about a goddess and female prophets. Inka, meanwhile, left her theatre career behind to raise Hedwig and now devotes herself to the home and garden. Both women harbour secrets that add to the tension.
The comedy weaves in broader societal issues, particularly the challenges faced by rainbow families. A parallel storyline follows conservative parents who discover their son is in a gay relationship with children. Their journey—from shock and denial to eventual acceptance—mirrors real struggles like homophobia, religious rejection, and ignorance about LGBTQ+ family life. The series, which concluded in 2023, showed their gradual change through therapy, personal encounters, and emotional growth. Brigitte Hobmeier and Gerti Drassl star as the two mothers, delivering performances that balance wit and warmth. The film's lighthearted tone doesn't shy away from tackling gender equality, traditional values, and generational clashes. Andreas Radovan's score adds to the charm, making it both a funny and thought-provoking watch.
The comedy arrives on ARD with a mix of sharp humour and heartfelt moments. It highlights the complexities of modern families while challenging old-fashioned attitudes. Viewers can catch it on March 18 or stream it anytime in the ARD Media Library.
