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Headed news: Are bridal group chats pushing hen do culture to the brink of financial stress, as reported by TikTokers?

Rising costs detailed in surveys show that the typical UK hen do expense has increased by 60% over the last decade, climbing from £150 to £242 per attendee. Yet, the question remains: why are we still expected to spend extravagantly on indulgent extended getaways?

Bridal group chats on TikTok are causing financial stress among participants, according to users.
Bridal group chats on TikTok are causing financial stress among participants, according to users.

Headed news: Are bridal group chats pushing hen do culture to the brink of financial stress, as reported by TikTokers?

In the world of weddings, hen dos – celebrations for brides before their big day – have become increasingly elaborate and expensive affairs. This trend reflects a shift towards highly curated and memorable experiences, often involving planned itineraries, fun activities, and significant financial outlays.

According to wedding planner Georgina Rose events, hen do planning can be a complex task. In a recent video, she shared tips for brides, sparking a debate about the correct mindset for hen dos. The debate has been ongoing, with strong opinions about hen do culture existing on the internet, differing greatly from one creator to the next.

The costs of hen dos, when added to the costs of the wedding day itself, can be equivalent to the cost of a Brazilian Butt Lift (BBL), as noted by some social media users. This escalation in expenses has led to a debate about whether it's fair to ask bridesmaids to pay hundreds of pounds for a long bridal weekend.

Hen dos have evolved from simple nights out to extravaganzas, including multiple expensive dinners, weekend trips abroad, and wellness sessions like yoga and sound healing. Brits are going bigger than ever with hen dos, taking more holiday days and spending more money this year. According to Hotels.com research, the average cost of a UK hen do has increased by 60% in the last ten years, from £150 to £242 per person.

This trend has not gone unnoticed, with internet culture reflecting both the enthusiasm for these celebrations and a critical, often playful awareness of their demands and expenses. Platforms like TikTok provide space for people to exchange ideas, plan affordable but fun hen dos, and address the sometimes overwhelming societal pressure tied to these events.

However, not everyone is comfortable with the escalating costs and expectations. TikToker Mikaela Robyn expressed feelings of stress and anxiety about the cost of hen dos, stating that they have been excessive in the past and have cost more than her holidays. Another user suggested that if the bride wants to go away, she should have budgeted for this within her wedding budget.

The debate about the correct mindset for hen dos continues, with some arguing that it's the bride's special day and she should be able to celebrate as she wishes, while others believe that hen dos should be kept simple and affordable for everyone invited. Regardless of one's stance, it's clear that the culture of hen dos is a topic of much discussion and debate in the UK.

References:

  1. Georgina Rose Events
  2. Mikaela Robyn, TikTok user
  3. Various "expectations versus reality" TikTok videos
  4. Emma Tagg, spokesperson for Hotels.com
  5. Hotels.com research on the cost of UK hen dos

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