Hey there Toni T.,
First off, I'd like to address a few observations about your message since it's an interaction between individuals.
- It seems you're reaching out to me, a woman, for advice. However, your message lacks courtesy and appreciation. Don't forget to address me directly, thank me for the advice, or share how valuable you think it will be to you. Communicating in a hurry and keeping typos can make you seem rushed, and it could potentially deter women from feeling connected to you.
- You mentioned that you often encounter women not being interested or having "minor issues." It may be worth reconsidering whether dismissing a woman's interest as a "minor problem" is the best approach. Showing understanding and appreciation for every woman's feelings is crucial to building a connection.
- You've shared that you're frustrated, unsure, and disappointed with women not meeting your expectations. Unfortunately, your message doesn't provide much detail about yourself, which makes it challenging for a woman to connect with you. Remember to open up, share your experience, and create a sense of empathy during interactions.
Sam, a therapist, offered remarkable insights about finding a partner. I've selected a few that might help you:
- Recognize the type of partner that would best suit you. Reflect on the kind of woman who would resonate with your personality and appreciate your qualities.
- Seek feedback from those who know you well. This could be family, friends, or a mentor who can provide valuable insights and pointers for self-reflection.
- Understand your role in relationships. Women often appreciate men who play an active part in our lives and who are committed to building a relationship based on mutual interests and shared activities.
- Examine your expectations and assess whether they're realistic. Changing your mindset and focusing on the present can help you find a partner who aligns with your values and beliefs.
- Consider working with a relationship coach. Sometimes, a professional can provide guidance, help you understand problems more effectively, and put you on the path to form meaningful connections.
You can also consider these strategies to improve your communication style and show respect toward women:
- Practice open communication, avoiding assumptions and focusing on the present.
- Use "I" statements to reflect your feelings and needs gently.
- Listen actively and honestly, seeking mutual understanding, and respecting boundaries.
- Avoid blame and criticism during conversations, focusing on finding common ground and solutions.
I hope these insights and tips can help you in your search for a partner. Wishing you luck and success in your relationships!