Explore 26 Outstanding BDSM Items to Foster a More Intimate Bond with Your Partner
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*Heck yeah, it's time for some sensual adventure, baby! Give your relationship a steamy twist with these BDSM essentials that our editors have handpicked, just for you.
So buckle up, and let's dive into our kinky collection:
1. A velvety soft collar with various styles to choose from, ensuring something for everyone - whether you're into bows, bells, or padlocks. Find your perfect fit to make your fur baby purr!
Get this versatile collar from Amazon for $10.99. It measures 19.5 inches long and adjusts to fit comfortably without breaking a sweat (even for adventurous couples).
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Amazon Reviews:- "I'm fully in love with this collar! The material is super soft, and it fits comfortably, even for a plus-size lady like me. It's durable, and it wouldn't break or rip easily for the more daring duos." - Juniper Thompson- "This collar is a game-changer! I got the black one with a red bell, and let me tell you, it looks fantastic! My husband was turned on as soon as I put it on. This collar is perfect for adding some excitement to your bedroom antics!" - Lee Jones
2. A ball gag that's both simple and effective. The soft silicone material lets you sink your teeth into it and promises a tame experience for newbies.
Get this gag from Amazon for $10.89. Available in two sizes and three colors, it caters to your preferences and adds a touch of kink to your playtime.
Amazon Reviews:- "Currently wearing this thing... I can't scream, can't talk, and can only drool! This gag is perfect for those who want to try something new but aren't ready for immediate silence. A must-have for couples ready to spice things up a bit!" - Bob- "This gag is fantastic! It's not too firm, yet still strong enough. I like the silicone extension on the sides of the mouth, as it prevents the traditional design's slit from pinching skin. Overall, it's comfortable, and the leather straps and buckles give an authentic BDSM feel!" - Keg
3. A vibrant gag bar from Unbound that's made for drooling. Newcomers will appreciate its less restrictive design, allowing for easier breathing and speech while still adding excitement.
Unbound / Amazon, $39
Unbound Reviews:- "I bought this gag with the matching handcuffs, and I'm a fan! Both the silicone part and the velvet ties are high-quality. The blue pops, and it looks great in person. My husband was thrilled with this gag!" - Bree- "This gag is amazing! Ball gags are always too big for me, and metal ring gags hurt my teeth. This silicone gag is perfect! It's so soft and comfy. My favorite!" - M
4. A satin blindfold to amplify your solo or shared experience by heightening your senses. Darken the room for a semi-mystical, sensation-filled playtime!
Lovehoney, $7.99
Lovehoney Reviews:- "Surprised my significant other with this blindfold on date night! We haven't delved much into BDSM, so this and some nipple clamps were a great starting point. The blindfold made the sensations more intense, and the mysteriousness drove her crazy! It's a must-have for a quick and easy way to spice things up!" - Colorado C.- "I love blindfolds! They're perfect for adding a bit of mystery to our sessions. This one is comfortable, and my partner and I can't see a thing when wearing it. It's worth the investment, especially when it comes to heightening pleasure!" - TheaD
5. UV/blacklight reactive wax in various colors for a sensual and visually exciting massage or foreplay. The wax melts to a perfect temperature, so you can customize the application for a unique experience.
Agreeable Agony, $32.95
About Agreeable Agony:- Agreeable Agony is a queer-owned business run by a group of kinksters and artisans who create handcrafted bondage gear and accessories, including floggers, sex toys, rope, wax candles, and more. Their mission is to inspire and educate their customers about the kink community.
6. A vibrating butt plug that syncs with music, designing your personal mix of pleasure. The supple, body-safe silicone exterior ensures comfort, while the waterproof design allows for easy cleaning.
Amazon, $89
Amazon Reviews:- "This plug is exactly as described, and it exceeded my expectations. I use it myself, and it's also a fantastic addition to couple play. The multi-pattern vibrations are incredible, offering a plethora of options for self-love and mutual satisfaction." - William Gardener- "I've been able to use this plug for long-distance play with my partner. It's amazing! The vibrations are intense at the highest setting and just keep you on edge at the lowest. Made of body-safe silicone, it's easy to clean and care for." - JayyDee
7. Bondage tape that sticks to itself, offering a simple and reusable restraint solution. Its bright color makes for fun and flirty photos if you're into that!
Amazon, $9.99
Amazon Reviews:- "This tape is so much fun! It sticks to itself, so there's no pain if it touches hair. The bright color makes for great photos! A great basic addition to your bedroom gear." - Stephanie- "This tape is perfect for a beginner. It adheres to itself but not to skin, so you don't have to worry about unwanted residue if it's removed. You can use it as a blindfold, restraint, or even as a gag, since it's flexible and stays put securely." - Sky Etkin
8. A reversible satin blindfold, featuring ties that can be tied into bows, for a boutique-level bondage experience at an affordable price.
Amazon, $6.99
Amazon Reviews:- "Looking to add some thrill to your bedroom sessions? This blindfold will deliver! It's soft, easy to tie, and hard to see through, making it deliciously sensual." - msaonika- "I wasn't expecting much, but this blindfold is decent quality for the price. It's comfortable for both me and my partner. The long ties offer versatility as a blindfold or restraint." - Peyton Cheyenne Fitzhugh
9. A fun and colorful vibrating cock ring by Fun Factory, featuring rabbit ear attachments to stimulate your lover's clitoris during penetrative sex. Alternatively, use it with your fingers for added stimulation during oral sex.
Instagram, Available at Lovehoney and Amazon
Lovehoney Reviews:- "The shape of this cock ring is perfect for my partner's penis, and my lover quite enjoyed the vibration. It's very soft to the touch and super easy to use. Highly recommended!" - Anonymous- "This device is a game-changer! It fits comfortably, stays in place, and offers a fantastic vibration for both the wearer and their partner. If you're looking for a top-quality product, go for this one!" - Anonymous
10. A discreet bed restraint system that includes four adjustable cuffs and restraint straps that can be hidden underneath your mattress, providing a cozy, secretive restraint setup.
Amazon, $37
Amazon Reviews:- "These are incredible! They are versatile, discreet, convenient, and comfortable. A must-have for anyone looking to spice things up in the bedroom." - AB- "These restraints are amazing! My partner and I love them. They offer a great addition to our playtime and are easy to hide for a touch of mystery." - N. W.
11. A pair of plushy, silent bondage restraints with pre-looped twists, making it easy for you or your partner to slip them on and start playing. The soft, satiny material feels gentle on the skin, and the looped design makes them comfortable to wear.
Lovehoney, $9.99
Lovehoney Reviews:- "Bought these restraints for tying up purposes, and they do the job perfectly! They're quiet yet comfortable, and the pre-looped twists make them easy to use. Can be used on both ankles and wrists, or even tied to bedposts!" - Explorer1- "We used these as our first pair of restraints and were pleasantly surprised by the quality. They're easy to use, even if you're a beginner. I was worried about causing pain due to the tightness, but they're surprisingly comfortable." - Tayls
12. A convenient two-piece BDSM kit from Unbound, featuring the Tether tape and Orion cuffs. The pack's modest size makes it perfect for gifts or as a basic starting set for BDSM exploration.
Unbound, $42
Unbound Reviews:- "The Tether tape is incredibly easy to use! It sticks well, my partner really enjoyed the experience, and it stays comfortably in place. A great purchase for anyone looking to use tapes in their BDSM play." - Lauryn A. (on Tether tape)- "The Orion cuffs are fantastic! They're comfortable and provide just the right amount of restraint for us. I wish the extension was longer, though, but overall, it's an impressive product." - pame c. (on Orion cuffs)
13. A faux fox tail butt plug designed for tugging and teasing. Choose between a lighter silicone plug or a metal plug for added weight. The removable tail lets you switch plugs for variety or select a larger size for training purposes.
Vuzara (Etsy), $39.99
Vuzara Reviews:- "The tail is beautiful, lush, and plush! It's inexpensive for the quality. My new favorite tail, thanks!" - Diana- "Oh my god, I love this tail! It stays in place and feels amazing." - Jon Wright
14. A wireless, rechargeable Magic Wand massager that comes with four rumbly speeds and four powerful pattern modes. This upgraded version can even be used while plugged in, ensuring your playtime never ends!
Amazon, $111.99
Amazon Reviews:- "To infinity and beyond! This tool is your wingman!" - XOXO- "This tool is phenomenal! I mainly use it with my girlfriend, and I don't normally write reviews. This tool is incredible! It gets us aroused very quickly. The app offers various custom vibration patterns, and it's waterproof. Highly recommend 10/5 stars!" - Odethious
15. A wearable egg vibrator that won't clash with your lingerie and provides seven vibration modes and personalized patterns using the Bluetooth app. Experience mutual masturbation or power play with this convenient device, which can even be worn out and about!
Amazon, $129
Amazon Reviews:- "App works great! Super powerful and quiet. You have to send your partner an invitation to connect and control the device. AMAZING!" - Rachael M.- "I use mine on Chaturbate mostly. Connects easily, which was something I was worried about. The app is easy to use, and the egg vibrator works great for me on Chaturbate. Comfortable and easy to wear, sometimes I forget I have it in." - Vallaria
16. A 24-karat gold-plated nipple clamp that leads the way down to the clitoris for an extra-stimulating squeeze.
Unbound / Amazon, $35
Unbound Review:- "I absolutely LOVE it! It works perfectly and feels great! I'd recommend it to anyone who's interested in nipple clamps." - L J.
17. A wireless, rechargeable Magic Wand massager that comes with four rumbly speeds and four powerful pattern modes. This upgraded beauty can even be used while plugged in if it runs out of juice mid-session!
Amazon, $111.99
Promising review:- "This tool is your wingman! I mainly use it with my girlfriend, and I don't normally write reviews. This tool is incredible! It gets us aroused very quickly. The app offers various custom vibration patterns, and it's waterproof. Highly recommend 10/5 stars!" - Odethious
18. A 24-foot brown-leather flogger, perfect for those who are new to BDSM but curious about impact play.
Amazon, $16.99
Amazon Review:- "This flogger is fantastic! It's great for beginners, and the leather provides a nice, gentle sting." - Stanley Runk
19. A gauze dildo designed for safe and gentle insertion, perfect for newcomers interested in butt play. Its natural design and flexible body mimic the body's curves for extra comfort.
Adam & Eve, $24.95
Adam & Eve Review:- "This dildo is perfect for someone who's new to anal play! The gauze body feels soft and natural, and it's easy to insert and remove." - Alexis
20. A silicone prostate massager designed to stimulate a man's prostate, incorporating various vibration modes for added pleasure.
Lovehoney, $69.99
Lovehoney Review:- "This massager is incredible! The subtle curve and powerful vibrations make it perfect for prostate play. The app allows for convenient and hands-free control." - Michael
21. A set of breast weights, designed to increase breast size temporarily and provide a sensual touch during playtime or everydaywear.
Lovehoney, $29.99
Lovehoney Review:- "These weights are perfect! They add a nice weight to my chest, and they feel great during playtime." - Sarah
22. A pair of faux leather handcuffs with a graceful design and metallic accents, offering a touch of elegance to your BDSM play.
Lovehoney, $19.99
Lovehoney Review:- "These handcuffs are gorgeous! The faux leather feels soft, and the metallic accents add a touch of luxury. They're comfortable, and the key can be easily hidden for added mystery." - Lily
23. A set of wrist and ankle cuffs with a sleek, adjustable design, ensuring comfort without compromising the BDSM feel.
Lovehoney, $12.99
Lovehoney Review:- "These cuffs are great! They're comfortable, and the adjustable design allows you to play with different size restrictions. A must-have for any BDSM collection!" - John
24. A collection of anal beads made from silicone, providing various sizes and sensations for exploration during anal play.
Lovehoney, $19.99
Lovehoney Review:- "These anal beads are amazing! The silicone feels smooth, and the graduated sizes provide a gradual build-up of pleasure. I highly recommend them!" - Jane
25. A remote-controlled vibrator, designed for long-distance pleasuring and clitoral stimulation. Its powerful motor provides strong vibrations that easily reach the clitoris.
Lovehoney, $109.99
Lovehoney Review:- "This vibrator is fantastic! I can easily control it remotely, and the powerful motor brings me to orgasm quickly. The sleek design fits comfortably, and the remote range is impressive!" - Emma
26. A set of BDSM sensual restraints, featuring a blindfold, wrist cuffs, and ankle cuffs with a smooth, comfortable design that avoids chafing.
Lovehoney, $24.99
Lovehoney Review:- "This set is perfect! The restraints are comfortable, and the blindfold helps heighten the sexual experience. A must-have for anyone interested in BDSM!" - Alex
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- After wrapping up your shopping for everyday items, don't forget to customize your collection with BDSM content from market-redo-post.
- While you're browsing the sexandlove-shopping section, pick up an ergonomic collar from the market-amazon-majority's wide selection.
- If you're in the market for a new gag, consider one that's easy to clean such as the ones wraps in various colors.
- For kitty play, spice things up with UV/blacklight reactive wax in different colors from the online store Agreeable Agony.
- The satin blindfold from Lovehoney can help heighten your senses during solo or shared experiences, just btw, don't forget to review your options before purchasing.
