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Everything used to be better! - Really?

Everything used to be better! - Really?

Everything used to be better! - Really?
Everything used to be better! - Really?

Nostalgia, you ask? Once upon a time, it sounded like a grand idea - reliving past glory days, yearning for simpler times. But it's time we cracked open the curtains and took a glance at the real deal.

With the end of each year, comes the inevitable bout of reflection. We think back on the wonderful experiences that made up the year, the Christmases filled with laughter and joy, or the New Year's Eves that felt like pure magic as children. It's a lovely feeling, reminiscing and getting a dose of nostalgia. But let's be real: was everything really any better back then? And what potential dangers lurk inside this cozy, comforting feeling?

To get to the bottom of this, we need to nail down what nostalgia actually means. Historian Tobias Becker from Freie Universität Berlin, an old hand at studying nostalgia, puts it simply: "Nostalgia is longing for something from the past we miss." But there's always a little sting of sadness that comes with it, he says. "We remember something beautiful--but we know that the moment is gone, and we can't relive it."

When life feels like it's in a constant state of crisis, it's no wonder that nostalgia is such a popular escape. Whether it's personal changes, like a new job, or societal upheavals, like the current coronavirus pandemic, nostalgia can serve as a psychological safety net. "It can help us cope with challenges by recalling past victories or simpler times," says media psychologist Tim Wulf from Cologne.

However, when we take a closer look at history, it's clear that everything was not always rosy. The past was filled with its share of struggles and heartaches. But sometimes, it's just so much easier to remember and cherish the good times, isn't it?

But this isn't just about personal reflections. Nostalgia has also become a powerful tool in politics. From Donald Trump's infamous "Make America Great Again" slogan to the far-right Alternative for Germany (AfD) party's messaging, nostalgia has been used to rally support and appeal to voters by tapping into their longing for a time gone by, a time that never truly existed.

There's a fine line between using nostalgia as a coping mechanism and allowing it to consume us. It's important to remember that while the past may hold many beautiful memories, it's also important to live in the present and focus on making the most of the time we have right now.

So, next time you find yourself lost in a nostalgic haze, take a step back, take a deep breath, and remember that though the past may have been great, it's never too late to make the present great, too.

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  • Nostalgia serves as a psychological resource, helping individuals cope with challenges by recalling past victories or simpler times.
  • Nostalgia can be a dangerous tool in politics, as it's often used to appeal to voters' longing for a time gone by, a time that never truly existed.
  • It's important to remember that while the past may hold many beautiful memories, it's important to live in the present and focus on making the most of the time we have right now.

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