Oops! Wedding Blunders: Here's What Not to Do as a Guest
- Author: Christina Klein
- Reading Time: Approx. 3 Min
Avoid these faux pas as a wedding guest: - Errors to Avoid When Being a Visitor:
Hey there, Partner! You've been invited to a wedding - yay! But before you start thinking about the free food and booze, there are a few things to keep in mind to make sure the bride and groom have the best day ever, and you don't become the talk of the town for all the wrong reasons.
Especially on a wedding day, when you're not in charge and might overlook some rules, even a solid friendship can take a hit. So, here are some DON'TS to remember when attending the big day:
- ** stay AWOL: Be on time! Arrive at least 15 minutes before the ceremony starts, taking your seat without making a scene.
- Don the Wrong Threads: Dress to impress, not to disappoint. If the invitation doesn't specify a dress code, think formal but classy - avoid jeans, sneakers, loud patterns, or anything too revealing. And ladies, white is off the table, as it's traditionally reserved for the bride.
- Bring an Unplanned +1: Communication is key. If the invite says +1, but you'd rather bring a new crush, make sure to check first. Never show up with a surprise guest, it can cause chaos!
- Bust Out the Games: Keep the party going, quietly. Some couples are cool with games, others think they belong on a '90s sitcom. If you're unsure, ask first or save your game face for another time.
- Drink 'til you Drop: Have fun, but don't overdo it. Alcohol can lead to some... interesting stories. Just remember, a buzz is enough to have a good time without becoming the talk of the reception.
- Grab the Spotlight: Support the stars of the show. Whether you're best buds with the bride or groom, it's not your day. Save the dirty jokes, sexual innuendos, and embarrassing stories for another time. Give a heartfelt, romantic speech instead.
- Gossip Galore: Keep it classy. Don't dish about other guests, the food, the music, or the wedding dress. A buffet disaster can't be changed, and it'll only ruin the mood. Keep it positive!
- Misbehave in Church: Show respect, even if you're not religious. Stand up when the pastor says so, but you don't have to pray or sing along if it goes against your beliefs. Just adapt, as long as it doesn't clash with your values.
- Gift Faux Pas: Gifts with guts. Avoid giving inappropriate gifts like sex toys or baby clothes as a joke. If the couple hasn't specified what they want, consider a couple activity as a gift certificate.
Sources: ProSieben, gofeminin, hochzeit.ch
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