Affordable and Practical BDSM Lingerie: 28 Attractive Options under $100
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Wanna heat things up in the bedroom? Look no further! This list is jammed packed with some steamy pieces for tantalizing BDSM play or sultry lingerie that's easy to slip on and get it poppin'. So, who's ready to sow some wild oats and get their freak on?
Spoiler alert: Some information provided here could be NSFW. Proceed at your own discretion.
1. Strappy, Adjustable Full-Body Harness
This bust-baring, adjustable harness boasts stretchy and adaptable straps for inclusion, perfect for those seeking some tantalizing lingerie that leaves nothing to the imagination. O-rings along the front offer opportunities for some (consensual and safe) bondage play with ropes, leashes, and more.
If you're after more styles, head over to the brand on Amazon!
Praise from fans: "Sexy and fun! Comfortable straps and many points of adjustment lead to a custom fit. A beautiful piece at a great price. You can easily wear whatever bra and panties you like underneath or go naked if that's more your speed." - K. Taylor
"I'm 5' tall and 200-something pounds, and, surprisingly, it's comfortable. More stretchy and adjustable than it looks. I was worried I'd look like a roasted ham in it, but nah, it's just fine. Totally worth the money." - Alexa dejulian
Price: $35.50 on Amazon (available in 14 colors and sizes M-XXL).
2. Adjustable Satin Harness for Those with Penises
This adaptable satin harness is designed for guys showing off their undergarments, stockings, or... you get the idea.
Paired with the right strappy bra, it can be the perfect blend of playfulness and sexiness.
"Wasn't sure about the harness look, but bought it on a whim. Supper sexy and brings a new dimension to the bedroom. A bit of playfulness combined with sex appeal! My S.O. loved it! As did I!" - Scott
Grab it from X Dress for $40 (available in four colors).
3. Lace Teddy, Crotchless for Easy Access
This crotchless lace teddy promises easy access to all those tricky spots.
Fan reviews: "Needed something to spice things up. This delivers! Naughty, sexy, comfortable - all in one!" - Anonymous
"After having no luck with previous teddies and chemise, this one fits my curvy body and big boobs perfectly, even making them perkier, which my man loves. It makes me feel sexy and hot, and hides imperfections. Love love love it!" - Anonymous
Get it from Lovehoney for $36.99 (available in one size for sizes 14-18).
4. Adjustable Body Chain with Nipple Ring
Spice up your bedroom game with this body chain featuring a non-piercing nipple ring. Let it cascade from your well-endowed buds to your hips for a sizzling sexy look.
Rave reviews: "I absolutely love this. It is so very sexy and erotic. I love that I can now find nipple jewelry for non-pierced nipples. I wish I had done it years ago because now I'm too chicken to do it. But I love this stuff and I will be purchasing more. Well made and has good weight to it. I like the way the metal feels against my skin. Recommend this seller. And yes, buy this, you will not regret it." - Martha
Nippleicious, a small business based in the UK, specializes in handmade non-piercing nipple jewelry for all. Find it on Etsy for $31.02 (available in three finishes).
5. Leather BDSM Belt for Restraint Play
Get a firm grasp on your partner's desires with this sturdy BDSM belt featuring adjustable buckles and metal O-rings. Perfect for submissives who want their dominant partner to take control (literally).
Praise from fans: "Great quality! My submissive and I love this waist belt and thigh cuffs! Exceeded expectations! We used them the first day they arrived." - Edward
"I have had this item a little while now and I wanted to use it a couple of times before writing this review. It's fucking perfect. The quality and craftsmanship of this item is incredible. There is not a single fray to any of the leather, all of it is uniform and consistent in quality. All the hardware is sturdy and ruggedly fixed onto the leather. Olga tailored the fit to the measurements I provided her, and she was quick to answer any questions I had. The fit is perfect, my other half could not be more pleased with it!" - callum macdonald
Get it from Harness By Olga Ku on Etsy for $80.25 (available in six colors and as individual pieces or a full set).
6. Strappy Harness Bralettes
Appreciate a simple design that complements everything? These strappy harness bralettes can accommodate all brands and body types with minimal fuss.
Perfect for three out of the four designs featuring O-rings for bondage fun!
These bralettes are one-size-fits-most and adjustable. If you're seeking a smaller option, check out these other [strappy bralettes][21].
Praise from fans: "I love these! I got these for a sexy getaway trip! My S.O. really liked them, and I felt SO sexy. I wear a 40G and fully expected these would not fit, but they did! They are easily adjusted and fit with room to adjust if needed." - Curious26
"Omg...I think I started a trend. These are fantastic. It took me a few minutes to figure out how to wear them, but once I referenced the picture from my order, it was easy to wear. They are comfortable and fit great." - B
Grab it from Amazon for $17.99 (available in two styles).
7. 'X' Nipple Pasties
Add some BDSM flair to your night with these studded and pierced nipple pasties featuring O-rings. (Just remember, don't attach anything too heavy to them.)
The pasties are made of silicone, making them wearable for up to 10-12 hours. A simple wipe down with soap and water after each use will keep them clean and fresh for future sessions! Proper care will ensure these bad boys last a long time.
Rave Reviews: "Love these so much! Amazing quality and makes me feel 🔥. Thank you!" - Kayla
"Love these pasties. They don't hurt when taking off and the quality is great. Definitely would buy again." - DeetheformerEmo
Get it from Nippleicious on Etsy (also available in red) or Amazon (only in black) for $15.99.
8. Lace Boxer Shorts with Cutouts
Show off your best assets with this pair of lace boxer shorts featuring front and back cutouts.
Fan reviews: "These cutout boxers are a winner for both me and the wife. They fit nicely and hold up well due to a good waistband. The hole at the front, which gives OH access to the goods underneath my LH lacy robe (wish they did the robe in white too) is just right. The rear opening is good too, as I do enjoy her pushing her fingers inside me and she enjoys rubbing the lace too." -Anonymous
"Bought these for a bit of fun because I enjoy the feel of lace underwear, and have tried my wife's on before. Got these, and popped them on, she likes the look of them, and the fit is great. The bonus with the open back is good too, as I do enjoy her rimming me so it's an extra bit of fun as these can remain on throughout all play for oral and sex. I bought a S/M, 34" waist and fit like a dream." -C&T
Get it from Lovehoney for $19.99 (available in S/M and L/XL; or a similar style in black L/XL).
9. Sparkling Rhinestone-Embellished Mesh Bodysuit
Add some glam to your intimate moments with this sparkling mesh bodysuit from Calexotics. Whether you're partnered up or going solo, this sultry number is sure to make you feel sexy as hell.
"I love this set, it's so glamorous!! I feel so confident wearing this and it's super comfortable too!" -Anonymous
Get it from Adam & Eve for $29.99 (available in one size for sizes 2-12 and a queen size for sizes 14-18).
10. 24-Karat Gold-Plated Nipple Clamps
Elevate your lingerie game with these luxurious, 24-karat gold-plated nipple clamps that trail down to a stimulating press against the clitoris. This elegant accessory provides a touch of luxury without hiding your favorite features.
Praise from fans: "I am just starting to experiment with nipple clamps, but I think I found my favorite. Honestly, other clamps looked a little intimidating, but these look like a beautiful piece of jewelry. They're so easy to customize pressure (especially for a novice) and it's nice having the versatility to choose whether or not you want to use the clit clamp. I did notice that the clamp guard did stick to my skin when taking them off, but next time I will try using a little lube beforehand. Overall, I would definitely recommend. I am buying a second pair to give to my sex therapist so she can show them in her practice, especially for newbies exploring pleasure. :)" - L J.
Get it from Unbound for $35.
Looking for more BDSM accessories you should own? Check out these [options][22].
If your love life needs a little lift, check out these favored tips from BuzzFeed readers!
11. Elegant Cuffs with a Chunky Goldtone Chain
Tie things up (literally) with these comfy faux-leather cuffs that feature a chunky, lustrous goldtone chain. They'll keep you secured without sacrificing your look.
Grab it from Bluebella for $59.
12. Four-Piece Lingerie Set
This set includes a cutout bra, high-waisted thong, garter belt, and thigh cuffs perfect for showcasing your best features. Enjoy the sheer mesh design on each piece.
Praise from fans: "This set is super cute and fits even better than expected. I have a smaller chest, so I was concerned the straps (that aren't adjustable) would be too loose, but the whole thing fits well, looks extremely flattering, and has been a hit with my fellow burlesque friends. Will be buying another set for sure!" -hemmy
"Husband and I loved this set of lingerie. We've been trying to spice things up in the bedroom. I don't have the perfect body of a model, but this really hugged all my curves in the right way and brought out the butt and thighs out in a positive way. Hubby loves my thighs, lol. Highly recommend! Planning on buying a few different colors of this set." - Jess
Grab it from Amazon for $19.99 (available in sizes XS-4XL and 25 colors).
13. Open-Cup Teddy with Bondage-Inspired Design
Strut your stuff with this bondage-inspired teddy featuring adjustable garter straps, an open crotch for easy access during penetration, and a studded design.
Praise from fans: "We loved this! My other half said she felt so powerful and sexy in it. And my jaw dropped when she walked in with it on. It took a few minutes to work out how to put it on, but it was worth the effort to see my other half's jaw drop when I paired it with my high boots and ordered him to MY room. Nice quality and worth the price in my opinion." -TopLHfan90
"Absolutely love this sexy set, fits really nicely and makes me feel very sexy. My other half says it turns me into a different woman, it certainly helps me lose my inhibitions. It took a bit of working out the first time I wore it, but it was soo worth the effort to see my other half's jaw drop when I paired it with my high boots and ordered him to MY room. Nice quality and worth the price in my opinion." -Anonymous
Get it from Lovehoney for $42.99 (available in dress sizes 2-26).
14. Studded Nipple Pasties with O-Rings
Elevate your look with these daring, studded nipple pasties featuring O-rings.
These pasties are crafted from silicone and can be worn for up to 10-12 hours. A quick wipe down with soap and water after each use ensures they'll be ready for further fun! Proper care ensures these bad boys last a long time.
Praise from fans: "What a delightfully painful toy!! My sub hates them. I think they're an amazing addition to the toy box!! I'll have her use clover clamps the night before and then wear these for the entire day at work. They certainly have a 'bite'... Perfect for a discrete punishment!!" -R D
"Holy shit these are incredible! Just the right amount of OW and the right amount of wearability/subtlety/ability to behave normally with them on. I went 'ouch' hand washing them before using them, and 'ouch' when I first pressed one. I feel very sexy and get really wet with them on my breasts. So basically yeah, super into them. And when you whack one...oh my god. Intense. If you're into light-to-strong-medium levels of pain, you'll like these." -A L
Get a pair from Bondatrix on Etsy (also available in red) or Amazon (only in black) for $15.99.
15. BDSM-Inspired Underwire Demi Bra with Detachable Velvet Harness
Up the ante on your cleavage game with this BDSM-inspired underwire demi bra adorned with faux leather cups. Add a risque edge with the detachable velvet harness.
Grab the matching thong [here][17]. 😏
Praise from fans: "I love this bra, very comfortable, sturdy, and sexy." -Anonymous
Get it from Bare Necessities for $97 (available in 30DD-38L, just make sure to double-check the size chart for the UK/US conversion!).
16. Full-Body Elastic Harness
Show off more than you think with this full-body elastic harness designed to flaunt your sensuality.
Praise from fans: "The harness band is very soft, comfortable, and stretchy. It fits so perfectly and makes me feel sexy." -Yaya
"It is perfect. If you're hesitating, don't. The product is totally worth the money." -Adam
Get it from Kevin's Closet 69 on Etsy for $37.95 (available in 12 colors)
17. Elastic and Adjustable Body Harness
This adjustable body harness highlights your legs and curves with a strappy design and garters.
Get it from Amazon for $14.85 (available in 13 colors).
18. Leather-Look Thong with O-Rings and Studs
Add some bondage-inspired vibes to your wardrobe with this leather-look thong featuring a comfy pouch for your manhood, O-rings, and studs.
Praise from fans: "My partner is a fan of BDSM and my behind, so my eyes instantly fell for this, and later my partner's tongue did. The fabric feels so great against my body, and the fit is right for my sizing here. The thong didn't dig into me and it did indeed bring the devil out in me. It looked fabulous, and well, the partner's reaction would agree." -Peach
"My little lady and I are new to some light bondage with this piece being one of two I purchased as an exciting start (cupless harness plus collar with nipple clamps for her). Great quality with a soft, comfortable fit. Nice amount of stretch in the fabric to hold everything in place, easy to slip on and off and looks damn gooood. Very happy." -Paul P.
Get it from Lovehoney for $24.99 (available in S/M and L/XL).
19. Floral-Embroidered Garter Set
Add some romantic flair to your lingerie drawer with this glittery floral-embroidered garter set featuring rose goldtone hardware for an extra luxurious touch.
The set includes a matching underwire balconette bra, garter, and G-string.
Grab it from Love, Vera for $100 (available in plus sizes and black, as well as orange).
This Black woman-owned lingerie brand focuses on inclusivity and increasing representation of Black women in the fashion industry.
20. Snakeskin-Inspired Restraint Harness
Take control with this snakeskin-inspired restraint harness featuring a collar, wrist restraints, and D-rings for additional restraints.
Praise from fans: "OMG!! If you are even thinking about getting anything from this shop, GET IT! Shipping was in discreet packaging, all the straps are easily adjustable, it's super comfy, and you will 100% feel sexy in it. The quality is phenomenal, and it is worth the full price!" -Emma A
"So happy! The packaging was really cute! Who doesn't love a package tied with a ribbon? The harness is great quality and easier to put on than I anticipated. I love that each strap is adjustable for a perfect fit. It has my confidence sky high!" -joyewaters12
Get it from Lovehoney for $59.99.
21. Beginner-Friendly Adjustable Harness
Dip your toes into the world of BDSM with this adjustable harness featuring a detachable collar and elastic straps.
At its smallest, the collar is 14.25 inches and 17 inches at its longest. The harness is adjustable enough to fit up to size 26.
Praise from fans: "Absolutely in love with my harness! Super easy to put on and comfortable to wear. I wore mine to pole class and got so many compliments! It's cute with an outfit or by itself if you're feeling frisky 😈." - Rae C.
Get it from Unbound for $25.
If you're new to all of this, definitely check out this roundup of [beginner-friendly BDSM accessories][38].
22. Customizable, Vegan-Friendly Harness
Get your kink on with this customizable, vegan-friendly harness featuring a detachable cock ring and multiple O-rings for some spontaneous bondage fun.
Looking for something custom? This harness is also available in custom sizes.
Praise from fans: "This is EXACTLY what I've wanted for so long!! Super comfy, and you will 100% feel sexy in it. The quality is fantastic, and it is worth the full price!" - Eric Summer
Get it from Double D Harnesses for $113.13 (originally $133.10 and available in 13 color combinations).
Double D Harnesses is a queer, BIPOC-owned small business based in Massachusetts that specializes in handmade bondage gear and accessories.
23. Latex Halter Top
Sizzle up the heat with this latex halter top featuring triangle cups connected by a metal O-ring for a sultry, slinky look.
Make sure to double-check the item description for UK size conversions.
Get it from Nipsticks on Etsy for $39.73 (originally $44.14+; available in sizes XS-L and custom sizes).
Nipsticks is a UK-based, queer- and woman-run small business that creates latex lingerie, pasties, and other nipple, face, and body decorations.
24. Rhinestone-Accented Bustier
Flaunt your stuff with this rhinestone-adorned, underwire bustier featuring an open-cup design to show off everything you've got. Adjustable rhinestone straps and accents add an extra touch of glam.
Get it from Bluebella for $54 (originally $109 and available in XS-XL).
25. Studded Leather-Look Lingerie Set
Take things up a notch with this studded leather-look lingerie set featuring assless chaps and a matching thong decorated with metal studs.
The pouch on the front of the chaps is removable, thanks to the handy innovation of Velcro.
Praise from fans: "My partner put these on our wishlist and I ordered them to surprise her. I couldn't wait to try them on once they arrived, and once I had them on I felt so dominant and sexy, I didn't want to take them off... so I didn't. I just waited for my partner to get home from work. They certainly had the desired effect. She loved them! She didn't know I had ordered. Made me feel dominant, so the look of shock was amazing, but that look soon went from shock to lustful desire." -Gjd1978
Grab it from Lovehoney for $36.99 (available in S/M and L/XL).
26. Chainlink Open-Back Bikini
Show off your manhood like the magnificent member it is with this chainlink open-back bikini. The minimal design offers easy, uninhibited access for all.
If you want a perfect fit, you can also get your bikini custom-tailored!
Get it from Choza House on Etsy for $16.16 (originally $20.20 and available in men's sizes XS-6XL).
Choza House is a small business run by a couple that specializes in handmade lingerie for all bodies.
27. Wet-Look Bodysuit
Add a wet, mesh look to your lingerie collection with this bodysuit featuring an O-ring on the halter neckline for some spontaneous bondage fun.
Note: Some customers say sizing runs small!
Get it from Amazon for $25.99 (available in sizes S-XXL).
Bonus: Elevate Things with Sex Chairs and Furniture
If you really want to take things to the next level, don't forget to check out these [sensational sex chairs and furniture][39].
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If you're looking for affordable, BDSM-inspired lingerie that caters to various body types and preferences, finding options can be a challenge. However, there are several strategies you can employ for locating the right pieces:
- Shop at various online retailers like My Secret Drawer or sex-positive brands like LOVE from SPG, who offer affordable, quality designs.
- Hunt for unique finds on alternative fashion stores, such as Beserk, which cater to the BDSM aesthetic.
- Consider custom orders, particularly on platforms like Etsy, for pieces tailored to your body type.
- Opt for stretchy materials like bodystockings for greater sizing flexibility.
- Consult community forums and groups for tips, recommendations, and resources for finding bespoke lingerie.
- Keep an eye out for high-end brands like Simone Pérèle who might occasionally offer sales or discounts on their pieces.
- The crotchless lace teddy, a steamy piece from Lovehoney, is praised for its easy access and ability to spice things up in the bedroom.
- Martha, a satisfied customer from Etsy, highly recommends the adjustable body chain with a non-piercing nipple ring for elevating bedroom game.
- The strappy, adjustable full-body harness from Amazon is popular among users for its versatility and inclusivity.
- The leather BDSM belt from Etsy, with adjustable buckles and metal O-rings, is praised for its quality and being perfect for submissives seeking control.
- If you're after more styles, a unique option can be found in the strappy harness bralettes on Amazon, which are praised for their adjustable fit and design.
- In the market for a new accessory, consider the 'X' nipple pasties with studs and O-rings from Etsy or Amazon for a touch of BDSM flair in your night.
- For those seeking lingerie that's easy to slip on and get things popping, the 24-karat gold-plated nipple clamps with a stimulating press against the clitoris from Unbound are a luxurious accessory to elevate your lingerie game.
- Looking for conversion tips, check out successful strategies borrowed from BuzzFeed readers, such as elevating your love life with elegant cuffs with a chunky goldtone chain from Bluebella.
- To show off your curvy body, the four-piece lingerie set, including a cutout bra, high-waisted thong, garter belt, and thigh cuffs, from Amazon is a popular choice.
- Strut your stuff in the open-cup teddy with a bondage-inspired design from Lovehoney, featuring adjustable garter straps, an open crotch, and a studded design.
- To spice things up in a more subtle way, don't forget about the sparkling rhineestone-emb ellished mesh bodysuit from Calexotics for some glamour and sex appeal.
- For those who appreciate a simple design, consider the strappy harness bralettes on Amazon, which are praised for their adjustable fit and compatibility with a variety of brands and body types.
- For a more delicate approach, the 'X' nipple pasties with studs and O-rings from Nippleicious on Etsy are praised for their comfort and stunning design.
- A favored accessory among BDSM enthusiasts is the BDSM-inspired underwire demi bra with detachable velvet harness from Bare Necessities, providing the perfect mix of elegance and daringness.
- Completing the bondage-inspired outfit, the leather-look thong with O-rings and studs from Amazon adds an edgy twist to your lingerie collection.
